Have we met?
We might have met on a conference or congress. We might have met in church. We might have connected through the lovely Five Minute Friday community. We might have run into each other somewhere around the globe.
People often say, “The first impression counts”, and I sometimes wonder what people think when they meet me.
The one who’s always up on some stage.
The talker.
The people person.
The networker.
The leader.
I don’t mind being called that, this is who I am.
But I sometimes wonder how many people know the other side of me.
The side that’s not up on some stage or leading someone.
I sometimes call myself an extro-introvert.
I actually like the quiet.
As much as I love meeting people and coaching them to discover their potential and the beauty around them I want to connect on a deeper level.
As much as I love sharing about things I’ve learned I want to hear.
As much as I sometimes need to get out and seek the crowds I want to appreciate the quiet.
I want to appreciate you.
I value words.
Your words.
Your story you so boldly share and allow me to hear.
That piece of your heart you decide to give away and allow me witness.
The quiet is a safe space where people are ready to open up and connect on a deeper level.
The quiet is a sanctuary where the noises of the world are not allowed to penetrate this peaceful atmosphere.
The quiet is the place where we slow down enough to listen, really listen to each other. Where we sit still and wait.
Where we open up our empty hands and hearts and whisper, “Lord, here we are. Speak.”
Writing for Five Minute Friday today.
I’m an extroverted introvert too. I like the quiet too! I’m over in the number seven spot this week.
Nice to meet other “kindred spirits” out there! Thanks for coming by, Tara!
I heard a theory of introvert/extroverts a few years ago that really resonated with me–an introvert needs quiet time in order to recharge and an extrovert needs noise and people to recharge. I really do enjoy people, but I definintely can’t function without my quiet time :).
Good thoughts! I guess I need both, but not at the same time. Ultimately I guess I would always prefer the quiet.
Lovely. How we need quiet to truly hear each other!
From another extro-introvert,
Thanks, Sylvia!